Your people, in your hands.
An external memory for the relationships that matter — built from your data, deployed to your server, owned outright. Before AI agents start acting on your address book, make sure the copy they read is the one you control.
01The shift coming.
For thirty years, your address book lived inside someone else's product. That's about to be a problem.
Platforms know you better
Facebook knows when you last messaged a friend. LinkedIn knows your professional graph. Google has your contacts. You have a vague feeling.
AI agents are arriving
Your assistant in 2027 will draft emails to people you haven't talked to in years. It needs structured, trustworthy context about who they are. Right now that data lives in places hostile to you reading it back.
The exit is closing
Facebook makes exporting harder every year. The longer you wait, the more of your past relationships are stuck inside their walls. The window to copy your data home is now.
02What we build.
A fast, themeable, editable personal directory web app, ingested from your data, deployed to your VPS.
Your data, parsed
Facebook all-time export, Google contacts CSV, LinkedIn export, vCards, custom JSON — ingested into a unified per-person record.
28-column data view
Click-sort headers, drag right-edge to resize, in-cell edit. Sticky header, sticky pinned name column. Persistent layout via localStorage.
Detail page per person
Ten panels: identity, contact, location, social, work / education, places, family, bio, life events, your private notes. Built for skimming.
Auto-built social URLs
Every record gets eight auto-generated platform links — LinkedIn, Twitter, Instagram, GitHub, and more — from the data already there.
Signal layer
Freshness (last interaction), depth (mutuals, DMs, tags), category (family / work / community). Surface the people who matter, not just the ones who exist.
Mythos-readable JSON
Every record exposes a stable URI and structured JSON-LD, so a future AI agent can read your directory natively. Designed for what's coming.
03Privacy by design.
This is the calm alternative to the platforms — built around what you want to keep, not what an algorithm wants to surface.
- Your server, your account.Deployed to a $5–$10 / month VPS in your name, under your DNS. We don't host the data. There's no central platform that can lock you out.
- One-time fee. Source code yours.You pay once. You receive the full source. You can move it, modify it, hand it to your kids, or shut it off forever. No SaaS lock-in.
- No telemetry. No tracking.The private side of the directory has no analytics scripts, no cookies, no third-party calls. The audit log of who looked at what stays on your server, accessible only to you.
- Auth-gated by default.The directory itself sits behind authentication. Public marketing is on the front door; everything behind it requires a credential only you and people you trust hold.
- Right to delete, built in.Per-record deletion. Export anything to JSON. If a friend asks to be removed, it takes thirty seconds and leaves no trace.
04Three tiers, one-time.
Pick the scope, pay once, walk away with a working directory and the source code.
Single data source. Single theme. Read-only directory. Deployed to your server. Two weeks turnaround.
Multi-source ingest. Editable + persistent. Detail pages per record. Four themes. Custom domain + SSL.
Signal layer + scoring. BBS / forum bridge. AI-agent JSON API. Custom workflow hooks. White-glove migration.
Built for the Mythos era.
When persistent-memory AI agents arrive, the question isn't whether they'll act on your relationships. It's which version of your address book they'll trust.
The platforms have the data. They won't share it with an agent that works for you. The directory we build sits on your server with stable per-person URIs, JSON-LD structured data, decay scores, and a relationship graph — the format an agent needs to act on your behalf without asking the platforms for permission.
This is speculative; nobody has shipped this agent yet. But the data work is the same regardless. If you want to be ready when it lands, the time to structure your people is before, not after.
Let's build yours.
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